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Have any problems?

Have any problems?

This thread is for you to share any problems of yours or a friend that is making you stress or that you and your friend don't know what to do. The main point is that people would come and give advices that would help or improve the situation.

You don't have to put "I have a problem...." if you don't want to. If you don't want people to know, then just put like "This person...." and its fine.

Hope that if anyone has any trouble then they would come here for advice. This topic is made to help people, so I hope that problems(anything) said here won't be spoken to other people outside.
Thank you!

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i think i will be the person that having a lot of prob. The biggest thing is Asian discrimination. What the stupid ppl thinking. If a person said that she is not racist, it means that she is..... Dont believe in those damn white ppl. (sorry for using those bad words...) Being Asian is the beautiful thing that God gives to us. We live under the same sky, on the same land, we should be cared for each other...Dont be discrimination and dont pretend that u r nice while u r not. B******* ppl.

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@oyster: Well I don't know if this is a probelm that you have but I don't totally agree with you because not all white people are racist. White people are not all racist, they are also people so I don't think that you should judge them differently. But I do agree with you that being Asian is a great thing so people shouldn't discriminate them!

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oyster, well i have never been in that situation before. i dont know whether they are racist or just being mean.
australia now has many immigrant, so i dont really care.
im just bless for who i am.

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yeah, i didnt have that prob b4, but since i moved to a new city. It sucks. THey look at asian as lower class, and treat Asian as garbage. Have u ever been in a restaurant that white ppl dont want to seat near u and they request to move the table farther?? look at asian as alien?? I dont blame all the White, cuz i have a lot ò White friends, but White in this Damn city

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@Oyster: Ahh... I get it now. I know that some whites do look down on Asians but the best thing for you to do is just ignore them. Even though sometimes it really bugs you but thats just life. Nothing is what you want in this world!
Fortunately, I haven't been in your situation but I know how it feels. I guess you have to deal with it in a mature way for this to stop happening!

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i know how u feel when others look down at you before they get to know u. but hey, its life, nothing is perfect, just like thaophuong said, just deal with it in a mature way. just ignore them. they will not changed their attitude even if u feel uncomfortable.
so look up, and breath in, think im proud for who i am. dont worry about them, we, asians will take them down soon hehe.

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Bài viết này bedethuong12000 vào lúc 10-4-2008 20:41  Have any problems? - A gathering place - ,
i know how u feel when others look down at you before they get to know u. but hey, its life, nothing is perfect, just like thaophuong said, just deal with it in a mature way. just ignore them. they wi ...
I think your mistaking me for someone else, I'm phuongtran not thaophuong. And I agree with you! Asian will tell them who's boss!

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Bài viết này oyster vào lúc 9-4-2008 02:06  Have any problems? - A gathering place - ,
i think i will be the person that having a lot of prob. The biggest thing is Asian discrimination. What the stupid ppl thinking. If a person said that she is not racist, it means that she is..... Dont ...
Oh well, I've been there too, get some discriminations here and there, while I'm living arround majority white people.  But I think if you are minority among majority, no matter what you are white or asian, you're still get discriminated because you are the minority .  I have a white friend, trying to study Vietnamese, and trying to hang out with Asians to study Vietnameses , but most of my Asian friends and some of my relatives always give us dirty looks, and often laugh at my friend and say bad things about white people, and my friend often get critized in front of them (in Vietnameses and not in english, so my friend cannot understand what they say), and sometimes my friend feel like the outcast among Asians.  Think about it!  The best way is just ignore the one who discriminate you, and hang out or hang arround more with the ones who are friendly and nice with open- minded personality .  There're plenty of nice, white folks that can even nicer than some Asians if you live in the States. Where do you live, in states or somewhere?

But do not feel bad about being Asian.  Feel very proud instead . I was in a Sociology class, and I was the only one Asian there, when the professor lectured us about in the current trend, the families of American-Asians in the States on average have higher education and make more money than the white families . Man! I feel so proud!

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Thanks for all of ur comments. I really dont like to hang out with those who r discriminate. The prob is my profs. who r among them. They smile with you, seem very friendly BUT it's not the real of them. I am sick  ò them. Cant believe that ppl with high educated still carry that in their mind although they alaways say "You guys dont ever think that WE ARE RACIST" (B*******).
BTW, sukki mentioned about Sociology. I had an experience that was not good.One of my classmate was Vietnamese who was raised in the States. She didnt know that there was me who is Vietnamese too in that class. SHe said that Vietnamese in Vietnam are very poor and all things that they could think are money. They didnt even have bathroom to use. THen she concluded her long opinion that i never liked to go back there to visit my relatives....I was really mad and asked her how do you that Vietnamese in VN are in that way if u had never been backed there? She said I saw from video that my parents took in vietnam, and my parents told me that VNese all wants USD for free.....I couldnt keep myself from laughing. I told her if u had not been in a country, u shouldnt give any bad look about it.

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